As much as I try to forget, the first time I had sex will always be burned in my memory.
It was around a decade ago. I was in high school (late bloomer) and I got a summer job working on a corn farm. I'd wake up at the crack of dawn, harvest corn until noon and then deliver it to various produce stands around the city.
Mikaela worked at one of these stands. She was a year older than me and went to the high school across town. About 5'7", long blonde hair and brown eyes. Thin as a twig but somehow was blessed with an ass that disobeyed gravity; as if she put a volleyball in her jeans each morning.
Needless to say, I wanted her.
We started dating. For weeks we'd rent movies and make out through them. I'd take her shirt and bra off but I was always too nervous to take off her pants. I'd go home from her house with terrible blue balls three or four times a week, no doubt leaving her wondering why the hell I hadn't fucked her yet.
One weekend her parents were out of town and she invited me to spend the night at her place. I decided that enough was enough: I was going to have sex with this girl. I picked up some condoms on my way to her house and stuck two of them in my wallet.
Hours later we were naked, kissing on her couch. The TV was on and the show Frasier was playing in the background. I remember it was a commercial break when she asked me:
"Do you have a condom?"
I slipped it on and she started riding me. I couldn't believe it was finally happening. I tried to contain my excitement but the urge to come was too strong. I finished but pretended I didn't. She continued to do her thing but I soon went soft. The gig was up. I lifted her off me, removed the condom and glanced at the TV.
I didn't even last through the commercial break.
Despite that humiliation, Mikaela and I dated for a year. And during that time, she had a grand total of zero orgasms.
Red Pill Orgasm By Mario Favela
A lot of time has passed since those days, and I like to think I've gotten a bit better in the sack department. But my ability to give girls orgasms has always been rather inconsistent and seemingly random.
With that in mind, I swallowed my pride and cracked open Red Pill Orgasm to see how I could up my sex game.
I read it in one sitting with a single thought replaying through my head.
I really wish I had read this book 10 years ago...
a brief overview
The first 1/3 of Red Pill Orgasm lays the groundwork for things you should be aware of before getting down and dirty, like the benefits of making a woman orgasm, the importance of communication, dominance and personal health and the different types of female orgasms. The author does a phenomenal job of getting the reader into the right headspace and explaining what a man needs to bring to the table mentally and emotionally if he wants to lay good pipe.
The bulk of the book focuses on actionable advice: how to perform foreplay, sex positions (complete with illustrations), and strategies and techniques for making your woman cum.
Finally, he wraps it up by explaining how to apply what you've learned in sequential order, giving you what is essentially an invaluable template for the female orgasm.
Three things that make this book better than other sex-guides
Here are the three main reasons why Red Pill Orgasm is in a league of its own:
1. It Tells The Truth About The Female Orgasm
My first sexual encounter (i.e. fiasco) that I mentioned earlier prompted me to seek out resources for improving my sex game. I checked out websites, forums and even women's magazines to find out how to improve. The vast majority of the advice boiled down to better communication, more foreplay, eye contact or tips for lasting longer in bed.
But they didn't mention the most important part of sexual dynamics.
Cosmopolitan and Men's Health Magazine tend to shy away from mentioning the fact that a lot of women need a hard rogering to have any hope of having an orgasm. This often includes things like slapping or mild choking. Feminists would have a field day if they found this sort of information in popular media, despite it being 100% true.
I'll never forget the first time a woman took my hands, put them around her neck and asked me to choke her during sex. That incident taught me more about women and sex than months of reading ever could.
Red Pill Orgasm stresses the importance of dominance during sex and tells you exactly how to establish it appropriately, both inside and outside of the bedroom.
This alone makes the book well worth it's price - you simply won't find good information of this nature anywhere else.
2. It Tells You EXACTLY What You Need To Do
Red Pill Orgasm is different from other sex guides because it doesn't rely solely on theory and abstract concepts. Instead, it shows you exactly what you need to do to make a woman cum. Detailed descriptions, instructions and illustrations accompany each and every sex position (and there are a lot included!) in this book.
Whereas most guides will simply give useless tips with no context (i.e. change the angle that your penis enters the vagina; alternate between fast strokes and slow strokes), Red Pill Orgasm takes it to the next level by telling AND showing you precisely how to fuck in specific positions, as well as when to adopt those positions.
Read this book once and I guarantee you'll know more about sex and the female orgasm than 95% of guys.
3. It Is Very, Very Detailed.
I was thoroughly impressed by the amount of thought and detail that went into this book. It is written in a clear and concise manner with absolutely no filler - 117 pages of pure actionable information.
The illustrations that go with each sex position help to clarify any confusion for those guys who aren't familiar with their names, and the author explains how to do each one while also providing additional tips to enhance her experience.
who will benefit from this book
Don't for a minute think that Red Pill Orgasm is just for beginners: it's not! Obviously the less experienced you are, the more you'll get from this book, but I'm willing to bet that even the most seasoned players would have a lot to gain by reading this.
Despite having been with a decent number of women, I got a tremendous amount of value. Particularly in terms of mindset, how to better channel sexual energy and how to improve my technique. The "Sets of Nine" stroking technique in Chapter 16 for example was completely new to me...and I'm looking forward to implementing it soon 😉.
Yet another thing that makes RPO great: all sexually active men - regardless of age, race or experience level - can benefit from reading it.
Red Pill Orgasm is the best resource on sex I have ever read...and I've read more about this topic than I care to admit.
The knowledge contained in this book is not easy to find, as it completely blows away traditional and mainstream advice regarding what it takes to bring a woman to orgasm. It is both a handbook and how-to guide for making your girl cum; invaluable insight to what women want in bed, but are often too bashful to admit.
Not bad for the price of a few coffees.
PS. The author also runs an excellent blog. It's one of the only ones I read on a regular basis. Check it out here.